This year, Michelle published her memoir. It’s called Bringing Truth to Light. Here, she tells us more about raising awareness and fighting for change.
In June, my book Bringing Truth to Light was published. Writing the book was an emotional experience, but it was important for me to get my message out there. I wanted to raise awareness about the impact of abuse, fight for change and send a message of hope to other survivors.
Though my book covers my time in residential care, I thought it was important to also talk about my earlier life. People often experience traumatic events before they enter the care system, not just during it. By sharing my experiences, I hope to really challenge systems, services and people to do better.
When I disclosed abuse, I either wasn’t believed. Often, we were labelled simply as ‘attention-seekers’. Many times, people didn’t do the right thing. So I thought the consequences would be worse if I did speak up. With my book, I really want to call on adults to listen to children, ask how they are, give them a safe space where they can share and – crucially – believe what they say.
By stepping in and taking action, adults can make a life-changing difference. We need to create legislation where we can empower services to act immediately. When children are protected and given help earlier on, their adult lives can be so much better. I’d been seen as a ‘problem’ when I just needed safety and support. If I’d been listened to and helped, I could have been more stable and done more things.
I have a fire in my belly and I was determined to show my worth. But sometimes you need other people to see your potential. Once someone gave me a chance, I knew I’d shine. I’ve gone on to do courses and get into work. At my job, I’m given thanks and appreciation. I cry when I get this because I am grateful but also because I always knew I deserved it. When I was younger, I wasn’t acknowledged.
Now, I want to be an ambassador for survivors. The scars might stay, but you can learn to live with them. Don’t give up, keep fighting for justice and get the support that’s right for you. I want services to listen too: protect, listen and believe children. Everyone needs the chance to have a life.
When you get the opportunity, you can change paths. I’m now working on a new book and this one is completely different. It’s a war-time romance. And, like my writing, my life is going into a new chapter too.
Bringing Truth to Light
Michelle’s book is available on Amazon. It is a powerful memoir about breaking free from the past and reclaiming your voice – no matter how long it takes.
